It's common in Italian to find words beginning with a (usually meaning "to" or "towards") followed by a double consonant. Often, these words stem from other root words. Before becoming one word, there were two. When two verbs become one (univerbiazione), the initial consonant of the second word likely gets doubled—for example, the double m in ammettere (to admit). The verb ammettere contains the verb mettere (to put) and the preposition a (to, at). See this lesson about ammettere. 

Però devi ammettere che ha agito a fin di bene.

But you have to admit that his actions were for a good cause.

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Accanto (beside). Canto (the noun we see within accanto), besides having to do with song and singing, also means "corner" or "border." Accanto can be both a preposition and an adverb, depending on how it's used. When it's a preposition we find it in the "normal" word order (after the verb and before the indirect object), and it might also have an additional preposition following it, in this case, a (to, at).

Come puoi continuare a vivere accanto a quell'uomo così cattivo?

How can you continue to live at the side of such an evil man?

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But when it's used as an adverb, it can follow both the verb and the object. 

Lo segui, gli stai accanto.

You guide him, you're at his side.

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It's useful to be aware of this phenomenon of adding a to the beginning of a word. It's used when turning a noun into a verb, for example. This helps us both to understand the verb and to figure out the noun. We can also try inventing a verb from a noun and it might just be right! 

Affrettare (to rush). This verb was made out of the noun la fretta (the hurry). 

Ma non ti sembra un po' affrettato? -Affrettato?

But doesn't it seem a bit rushed to you? -Rushed?

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Appresso (near to)

We discuss the preposition appresso in contrast to presso in this lesson. 

E Brunella, una compagna della nuova classe che si porta sempre appresso il fratellino di sei anni.

And Brunella, a friend from his new class who always takes her six-year-old little brother with her.

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Addosso (on)

And we talk about addosso in this lesson. 

Abbiamo la stampa addosso...

We have the press on our backs...

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Io questo ciondolo l'ho visto addosso a qualcuno.

I've seen this pendant on someone.

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Here again, we've seen addosso (like accanto) as both a preposition and as an adverb. It is not important to know which part of speech it is; it's just important to know how to use the words and to understand them.

Allora is discussed in this popular lesson.

Allora is one of the most popular words in the Italian language. It has various nuances and is commonly used as filler. 

Allora, tu ti chiami Chiara, vero?

So, your name is Chiara, right?

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But allora can also mean "at that time." You can see the word ora (time, hour) within allora. 

E da allora, non ho più avuto problemi con la giustizia.

And since then, I haven't had any problems with the law.

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Aggirare (to skirt, to circumvent). Here, the verb aggirare seems like a shortcut to replace girare intorno. 

Siamo diventati un paese dove siamo esperti nell'arte di aggirare gli ostacoli.

We've become a country where we're experts in the art of skirting obstacles.

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Addetto (in charge) 

Here we can discern the past participle — detto — of the verb dire (to say, to tell). So, someone has been told to take care of something. 

Si chiamava Sandro Stefani, quarantacinque anni, lavorava qui, era addetto alla fermentazione del vino.

His name was Sandro Stefani, forty-five years old, he worked here. He was in charge of wine fermentation.

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We've only touched on some of the Italian words that fall into this loosely-fashioned category. The words are kind of fun to discover and take apart. Please write to us about any similar words you come across in your Italian studies. And... thanks for reading. 

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What words and expressions can we use in Italian to talk about getting along with other people, or not getting along? There are plenty of ways, some more mainstream, and others more colloquial or even vulgar, especially when it's about not getting along. 

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First of all, let's mention the classic term simpatico, which is tough to translate accurately (see this lesson). Although simpatico is not strictly connected with getting along, it is often a factor.

Someone can be simpatico, meaning they are friendly, easy to get along with, nice, likeable. None of these descriptions alone is enough to express the idea of simpatico. But simpatico has become a word that many English speakers understand. We can use simpatico as an adjective to describe a person:

Nick è uno simpatico, un po' fuori di testa.

Nick is a nice guy, a bit crazy.

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But we can personalize it a bit by using the verb stare instead of essere and adding a personal pronoun. This is one way of getting around the fact that "to like" is transitive in English but not in Italian. We've mentioned in another lesson that mi piace can have various connotations, but stare simpatico is more generic and "safe."

Anche se la conoscevo poco, mi stava simpatica. -Certo.

Even if I didn't know her well, I liked her. -Of course.

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The opposite of simpatico is antipatico. But while we can use antipatico to describe a person, we also use it to describe something unpleasant like a medical procedure. It often means "unpleasant" in this context. In the following example, "unfriendly" was the translation but it could also have been "unpleasant," "not nice." Sometimes we might use "nasty," but that is a strong word. 

È severo e pure un po' antipatico.

He is stern and also a bit unfriendly.

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In terms of getting along, the classic phrasal verb is andare d'accordo (literally, "to go in agreement").

Non mi avevi detto che andavate d'accordo? -Sì, andiamo d'accordo.

Didn't you tell me you got along great? -Yes, we get along.

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Sai quanto tuo marito mi sta antipatico, e questo lo abbiamo capito fra le righe, però andare d'accordo con te non è che è facile, eh.

You know how much I don't like your husband, and this we have figured out, reading between the lines, but getting along with you isn't easy, huh.

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Another way to express "getting along" in a very positive way, is with stare bene. Stare bene can mean "to feel good," "to be comfortable," or "to be in good health." Stare insieme is used when two people are in a couple. Stanno insieme (they are together, they're a couple).

Stiamo bene insieme.

We get along well together/we go well together.

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Sometimes you can get along with someone you don't like, but sometimes people are mean. In Italian, we use vedere (to see) instead of "to stand," when you can't stand someone. 

Per esempio: "Nicoletta è sempre antipatica con me".  E in effetti, anche io non la posso vedere.

For example: "Nicoletta is always nasty to me." And, actually, I can't stand her either.

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Sometimes we don't get along with someone because one of us is a pain in the butt. The socially acceptable way to describe this type of person is un rompiscatole. See this lesson for a closer look.

Problemi? -No, niente, è solo 'sta [questa] rompiscatole.

Problems? -No, nothing. It's just this pain in the ass.

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Now we get to more vulgar terms. Replacing rompiscatole with rompipalle or rompiballe (literally "ballbreaker," pain in the ass) is more vulgar. We again use stare (to be, to stay) together with a word for male genitalia or some euphemism. We are describing someone who can't stand someone else. The next example is quite vulgar, although used a lot, except in polite company. 

Magari gli stavo sul cazzo.

Maybe to him I was a pain in the ass. 

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To make this more socially acceptable, it could be:

Magari gli stavo sulle scatole.

Mi ha accollato agli altri a forza e il risultato finale è che sono appena arrivato e sto già sul cazzo a tutti.

He forced me on the others and the end result is that I only just arrived and I'm already pissing everyone off.

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We might have translated this another way, too:

Sto già sul cazzo a tutti.

Everyone already hates me/can't stand me/I am already hated by everyone.

Although the word order is different from what we say in English, the idea is that someone is hated by someone else. 

Thanks for reading. Please write to us if you have questions or comments about this topic: [email protected]

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One of our subscribers has asked about the difference between two verbs: immaginare and supporre. Of course, both verbs have English cognates: "to imagine" and "to suppose." But knowing when and how to use them is not always obvious. Let's focus first on immaginare, and we'll save supporre for an upcoming lesson. 

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Immaginare

The verb immaginare can be transitive and it matches up with the English meaning of "imagine." In an episode of Sposami, Ugo wants some comprehension from Nora. She gives him a snappy retort.

Per una volta nella vita, cerca di capirmi, prova a immaginare la situazione. -Cosa devo immaginare, Ugo? L'ho vista la scena.

For once in your life, try to understand me, try to imagine the situation. -What should I imagine, Ugo? I saw the scene.

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It can be intransitive and still corresponds to English: 

Ma immagina quando fra dieci, vent'anni il mercato richiederà soltanto calcolatori elettronici.

But imagine when, in ten, twenty years, the market will be asking for electronic calculators only.

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Immaginare can be used with a reflexive ending to add some personal reinforcement.

Immaginati la sorpresa quando ho scoperto che dopo tutti questi anni eri diventata... Un poliziotto? -No! Bellissima!

Imagine [for yourself] my surprise when I discovered that after all these years you had become... A cop? -No! Beautiful!

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In English, when we give a short answer, we usually say "I can imagine," in other words, using a modal verb before the main verb. In Italian, we can just use the verb itself with no modal verb before it. 

Poi io so' [sono] passato a lavorare nello studio e mi occupo un po' di tutto... un incarico di fiducia. -Immagino.

Then I began working in the office and I handle a little bit of everything... a position of trustworthiness. -I can imagine.

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We can also use the modal verb potere (to be able to) as an option.

Non mi sono ancora ripreso da questa tragedia, ve lo confesso. -Posso immaginare.

I haven't yet recovered from this tragedy, I'll confess it to you. -I can imagine.

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The verb immaginare is also used like "to suppose,"  "to think," "to believe," and "to guess." Although we used the cognate in the translation to facilitate remembering the word, other words could work, too. This is a case in which immaginare and supporre are interchangeable. 

Immagino che vorrà parlarmi di Donata Miulli.

I imagine that you will want to talk to me about Donata Miulli.

I suppose that you will want to talk to me about Donata Miulli.

I guess that you will want to talk to me about Donata Miulli.

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Since both verbs have to do with hypothesis rather than certainty, they often take the subjunctive when followed by the conjunction che. 

Immagino che si tratti del sequestro De Carolis.

I guess [that] it is about the De Carolis kidnapping.

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In English we often say, "I suppose so," "I think so," "I guess so," etc. It's important to keep in mind that in Italian, this "so" is expressed with di sì. We translated immagino di sì with "I imagine so," but it could also have  been "I guess so" or "I think so."

Ma, quindi, Grazia faceva la modella? Immagino di sì. Casa sua era piena di foto di questo tipo, quindi immagino di sì.

But, so, Grazia was a model? I imagine so. Her house was full of photos like this, so I imagine so.

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In Part 2, we'll focus on supporre.

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