What's the difference between lasciare and partire?

By Sigrid Lee

Lasciare and partire both mean "to leave." So, what's the difference, if any?

Actually, there is a big difference, especially in grammatical terms. Lasciare is a transitive verb, meaning it takes a direct object. You leave a place, a thing, a person. Other meanings are: "to abandon," "to leave behind," "to let," "to let go," or "to allow."

Tanto anche se mi cacciano non mi importa, mia madre vuole che lasci Milano.

In any case, if they kick me out, I don't care. My mother wants me to leave Milan.

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When forming compound tenses, the auxiliary verb avere (to have) is used.

Tu hai finalmente lasciato quel tuo inutile fidanzato, e tua madre ed io ne siamo stati felici per te.

You finally left that useless boyfriend of yours and your mother and I were happy about that for you.

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When you want someone to get off your back, either physically or figuratively, lasciare is a good verb to use.

Ma come ti... -Guarda che ti posso pagare... -Lasciami!... -te l'ho detto. Lasciami!

But how... -Look, I can pay you... -Let me go!... -I told you. Let me go!

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But this expression can be expanded, too:

Ma come ti sei vestita? -Ehi, lasciami stare.

But how did you dress? -Hey, leave me be.

But how did you dress? -Hey, leave me alone.

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Lasciatemi stare!

Let (plural) me be!

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Here's another common way to say "leave me alone."

Lasciami in pace.

Leave me alone (literally, "leave me in peace").

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Of course, in English, when we say "leave me alone," we don't mean literally "alone," we mean, "stop bothering me," or "get off my back."

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Attenzione! We can also use the reflexive form of lasciare: lasciarsi, which can either mean to let yourself do something, as in the following example:

La gente quando mangia, si lascia andare, non tiene difese e io la guardo.

When people eat, they let themselves go, they let their guard down and I observe them.

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Note that when we use the reflexive form lasciarsi, we use the auxiliary essere (to be).

Da quando a Cappellini era morta la moglie, si era lasciato andare in un modo decisamente eccessivo.

Since Cappellini's wife died, he had let himself go in such a way [that was] decidedly excessive.

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We can use lasciarsi reciprocally, as when a couple breaks up.

No, ci siamo lasciati.

No, we broke up.

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Partire, on the other hand, is an intransitive verb. No direct object here.

Devo partire con lei.

I have to leave with her.

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Purtroppo martedì noi partiamo per Londra.

Unfortunately, on Tuesday we leave for London.

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We use the verb partire to mean "to start," as in a car not starting:

Problemi, prof? -E sì, non parte.

Problems, Prof? -Yes, it [the car] won't start.

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But we also use it when we want to start doing something, such as a race, a competition, a discussion, or when we start rehearsing a musical piece together.

Partiamo con gli assaggi dei vostri arancini.

We'll begin with tasting your rice balls.

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We hope you have a better idea about the difference between lasciare and partire. This is a partial picture, as both of these verbs are used in various situations, with nuanced meanings. Write to us with your questions or comments. We love to hear from you: [email protected].