The noun il complimento sometimes means the same thing as in English: the compliment. It's used a bit differently, and is often synonymous with "congratulations." 

When you want to say, "Nice job!" you might say, Complimenti!

Complimenti, mamma, ma qual'è il tuo segreto?

Very nice, Mom, but what's your secret?

Caption 33, Adriano La granita al limone

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But there is another way complimenti  is used, and it's important, especially if someone invites you to their home and you are not sure how to act. In order to put you at ease, they might say, non fare complimenti. It means, "Relax, you don't have to be formal." This is especially true at the dinner table. The host or hostess might say, Serviti, non fare complimenti. So you can go ahead and take seconds...

Sì, però, è che non vorrei... -E non fare complimenti, scusa.

Yes, but it's that I wouldn't want... -And don't say no out of politeness, sorry.

Caption 56, Un medico in famiglia Stagione 3 S3EP3 - Il tarlo del sospetto - Part 11

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Grazie, eh. -No, prego, non fare complimenti, ah.

Thanks, huh. -No, you're welcome, don't stand on ceremony, huh.

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In a recent lesson, Daniela talks about using the noun il bisogno (the need) to express need.

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Ho bisogno di fare ginnastica.

I need to do some gym (literally, “I have need of doing some gym”).

Caption 31, Corso di italiano con Daniela - Concetto di "bisogno"

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Per cominciare, abbiamo bisogno di due melanzane lunghe,

To start with, we need two long eggplants,

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Hai bisogno di qualcosa?
Do you need something?

Of course, bisogno looks like the first person singular of the verb bisognare, but it’s not. It’s a noun.

But, since we have already discussed bisogno in another online lesson, let's look at a different way to express need, this time with a verb.

We might agree that there’s sometimes a fine line between something that's necessary and something that is useful. Italian has an interesting verb that covers both bases much of the time. In Italian, we can express need with the verb servire (to serve). It’s used with an indirect object, as if it were “it serves to me.” Remember that ci in the following example means a noi (to us).

Allora, mamma, quali sono gli ingredienti che

So, Mom, what are the ingredients

ci servono per preparare una granita al limone?

we need to make the lemon ice?

Caption 13, Adriano - La granita al limone

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The verb servire is conjugated according to what is needed, what is necessary, or what is useful. In the above example, the noun that determines the conjugation is ingredienti (ingredients) so we use the third person plural of servire: servono.

Servire works similarly to the verb piacere. Remember mi piace (I like it)? Here’s a lesson on it to refresh your memory.

If you are helping someone in the kitchen you might ask:

Cosa ti serve (what do you need/what is necessary for you)?

You could also ask, as Daniela explains in this week's lesson:

Di che cosa hai bisogno (what do you need/what do you have need of)?

However, when followed by the preposition a (to), servire can also mean “is used.”

C'è una corda che è almeno il doppio di questa qui,

There's a rope that's at least twice as long as this one,

che serve a far muovere il cavallo prima di montarci sopra.

that is used to warm up the horse before mounting him.

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So a dialogue in the kitchen could go something like this:

Cosa ti serve (what do you need)?
Mi serve un mestolo (I need a ladle).
A che cosa serve un mestolo (what is a ladle used for)?
Serve a servire il brodo (it’s used to serve the soup).

And now you have seen that servire also means “to serve.” It’s a true cognate in this case.
There’s also a reflexive version of this verb, but we’ll talk about that in another lesson.

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Conoscere il verbo servire serve (knowing the verb servire is useful)!